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Published: September 30, 2015

Actually, Marriage is for (Both of) You

Marriage isn't for you? Actually, marriage is for both of you. And self-care is never selfish. | Belle Brita

This is an updated and revised essay that I wrote in 2013 and shared with a few friends. Belle Brita did not exist then, so I’m posting it here today. Two years ago, a blog post titled, “Marriage Isn’t For You” went viral. In it, a smug newlywed tells everyone exactly how to have a… [Read More]

12 CommentsFiled Under: MarriageTagged With: advocacy, romance, sexism


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Published: September 16, 2015

Feminism 101: Modesty Culture

In Christian Modesty Culture, women must change their clothing to prevent men for lusting after them. | Belle Brita

I touched on Modesty Culture in both my post on why I wear a bikini and in my 101 post on Purity Culture. In religious circles, Modesty Culture is a subset of Purity Culture. However, Modesty Culture also pops up in secular conversation and public school dress codes. Then it’s not acting as part of… [Read More]

12 CommentsFiled Under: Faith, Feminism 101Tagged With: Modesty Culture, religion, sexism


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Updated: July 4, 2021    

Let’s Talk About Sex Advice (Part 2)

Confused by all the sex advice out there? Regardless of whether it's your first time or your hundredth time, read this good sex advice to improve your sex life. | Belle Brita

I kind of dropped the ball in my series on dating, relationships, and sex. If you’re new to my blog, check out my post on bad sex advice first. Good sex advice can be hard to find, but I’ve compiled the most important tips below. Note: Some of this stuff is heteronormative, either because I’m… [Read More]

16 CommentsFiled Under: DatingTagged With: contraception, sexism


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Published: August 31, 2015

I Didn’t Keep My Maiden Name

I didn't keep my maiden name when I got married... But I didn't change my surname either. Aka the problem with calling a woman's last name her "maiden name." | Belle Brita

My husband and I have been married for almost 18 months. I think that means we’re still newlyweds. I know we still have a lot to learn about married life. It’s not easy blending two big personalities together into one harmonious couple… but we make it work. Much of what I’m learning about marriage is… [Read More]

24 CommentsFiled Under: Feminism, MarriageTagged With: sexism


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Updated: October 25, 2016    

Feminism 101: Purity Culture

An overview of Christian Purity Culture. What are the key characteristics of Purity Culture? How is it a subset of rape culture?

It’s been a few months since I last covered a topic under Feminism 101. It’s been even longer since my post explaining rape culture. If you need a reminder, I recommend you reread that post before continuing with Purity Culture. Purity Culture is a religious subset of rape culture. While Purity Culture is not limited to… [Read More]

37 CommentsFiled Under: Faith, Feminism 101Tagged With: advocacy, Modesty Culture, Purity Culture, religion, sexism


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Updated: July 31, 2016    

My Parents Made a Feminist out of Me

I noticed sexism as a kid, even if I couldn't articulate it. My parents taught me that sexism was wrong, that I was just as good as my twin brother. They are why I'm a feminist today.

Post contains affiliate links. I’ve been a feminist for as long as I can remember. I became a feminist at such a young age that I didn’t even know what a feminist was. I didn’t know there were adults out there who understood how I felt, adults who agreed with me, adults who had paved… [Read More]

6 CommentsFiled Under: FeminismTagged With: advocacy, sexism, The F-Word

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