To be honest, I am struggling emotionally and physically right now.
The really short story? Managing Crohn’s Disease is taking its toll on my emotional well-being. Plus my skin infection of 3 months is bothering me physically, and the constant discomfort is bothering me emotionally.
The end result is a lack of focus for the things that should matter to me, plus a growing disinterest in anything other than entertainment. I guess the upside is I’m reading a lot.
I’ve spent the last 3 years setting monthly goals. I love looking back in 6-month increments to see how much progress I’ve made long-term. Even when I have a month like last month, in which I did very little, I’ve still positively improved my life over the last 3 years.
Today I will recap October 2017 as usual, but I will not set goals for November. Or December, for that matter.
I need to take a step back from blogging. While I haven’t blogged as much over the last several months, I’ve still spent considerable time on social media, plus time on lengthy still-not-finished blog posts.
Instagram no longer brings me the joy it once did, so I’ve slowly cut back on my time in the app. I’ve stopped trying to grow my main account, focusing instead on engagement. And even then, I’m just not as interested as I used to be.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BacPBYzHaZR/
I need to better balance my time between learning and doing. Recently I’ve tried to do both fully, and instead failed spectacularly at doing either with intention. I have some great courses to take and books to read to improve my blogging, but I need to take the time to do just a bit as a time, implementing what I learn as I go along.
All that said, I still have a few planned blog posts for this month and next. I’m working on a sponsored post for next week, plus a gift guide for the end of the month. In December I’ll announce the new prompts for February’s blog challenge, which I’m excited to bring back for its 3rd year!
October Recap:
For my career:
- I didn’t make any progress on publishing the paperback version of my mother’s book.
- Market Muddling Through Again:
- Nope, no new new freebie.
- I still only have 16 email subscribers.
- I didn’t create Muddling Through Writer Guidelines.
- Yes, I blogged 2x!
- I didn’t grow my Facebook likes at all.
- Yes, I stayed on track with my Kappa volunteer position.
- While I actually lost Instagram followers, that was intentional. I’ve very conservatively blocked followers in order to focus on a more engaged audience.
- I only blogged 3x on Belle Brita, not 6x.
- Yes, I updated 2 old blog posts with better photos/graphics!
- But I didn’t update my sidebar and navigation bar.
October 2017 Blog Posts:
- October 2017 Goals // September Recap
- 10 Best Restaurants in Greenwood, SC
- #MeToo: My Story of Sexual Harassment and Sexual Assault
For my health:
- I decided to postpone plans for my Crohn’s diet until after the holidays.
- I did see my dermatologist, who I need to see again.
- Alas, I didn’t exercise with any intention. Dan and I did some walking with our various trips, but my goal was to exercise every week.
- While I ate some salads, I didn’t eat 3 salads every single week.
- I worked really hard to be off my phone by 9:30pm each night. However, I didn’t succeed every night. I am thinking of how to accomplish this long-term. I have problems sleeping, and I think being away from my phone before bed will help.
For my marriage:
- I think I only checked Instagram 4x per day while on vacation in New England? Certainly I tried to stay off Instagram.
- The first week of October, I took out the trash (usually Dan’s chore) and gave him a surprise foot massage, but my unexpectedly nice things didn’t last all month.
- I’ve done zero planning for our trip to Japan.
For our household:
- Nope, I didn’t declutter every week, although I decluttered some.
- Nor did I meal-plan every week, although I meal-planned some.
- I met my gardening goal halfway, since I spent time in the garden 2 weeks. Just not every week.
- I didn’t work on my vanity drawers at all.
- Nor did I deep-clean our bedroom.
- Nor did I dust the entire house (not counting spare bedrooms).
- I also didn’t send out overdue wedding cards/gifts.
- And I didn’t renew my passport.
While I don’t really have goals for this month, I do have intentions.
I’m spending almost two weeks in Greenwood for Thanksgiving. I plan on seeing friends and cleaning out my childhood bedroom.
For my blog, I just want to focus on a few long-term things. I want to update old blog posts to improve my Pinterest traffic. I also want to read more books and start taking my courses.
Finally, I want to work on all the overdue tasks and chores around the house. I’ve let so many little things slide because they aren’t important, but they still need to get done.
So that’s my life. How is yours?
You have a lot going on so I think stepping back is the best thing for you! I still think you did pretty well with your goals with everything that went on the past month!
Thanks, Elyse. I appreciate your kind words!
I’ve been in a very similar season, but for obviously different reasons. At least we’ve got our books 😉
Know I’m a little late here, but I wanted to pop in and say that I’m sorry that you are feeling so crappy. Sometimes when we feel crappy and are going through things we have to adjust the expectations we have for ourselves. I’ll admit that that has been really tough for me to do sometimes.
So many goals Brita! I think you did amazingly well with what you achieved. I need to start writing mine down so I know what I’ve managed to do instead of lamenting over what I’ve not got done! Hope you had a fab thanksgiving ♥️♥️