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Published: December 18, 2015

Site Prep with Dan // Volume 8, Holiday Edition!

I inadvertently messed up my editorial calendar for November. I had the wrong date for The Guys Behind the Blog, and I missed it. Oops.

And then I forgot to ask Dan these questions in time for the link-up yesterday, so this is a day late.

Luckily, Dan and I are BACK to share all things Christmasy. As a special holiday treat, I’ve included my answers to the questions too! Extra bonus: I’ve also added the questions for Blogger Men Tell All!

Beautiful close-up of the engaged couple.

The Guys Behind the Blog

What is on your Christmas list?

Dan: Well, when you’re an adult, you don’t really have a Christmas list… I mean, you request things of other people when you’re an adult. What I want, I buy for myself, which really upsets people who get gifts for me.

In a perfect world, Santa would bring me car parts and tools.

Brita: My awesome Kappa Little has a fairy tale published in the anthology Frozen Fairy Tales (affiliate link). I really want it for Christmas. Other than that… I can’t really think of anything else I want for Christmas. I always welcome knee socks. Experiences are cool, like tickets to something.

Did you believe in Santa as a child? Do you have any funny Santa stories?

Dan: I probably did believe in Santa, but I don’t recall believing in an actual Santa, which probably results from being being the youngest of the children.

I got in trouble for spilling the beans to one of my cousins because I assumed he already knew Santa didn’t exist.

Brita: I believed in Santa until I was almost 10. Don’t judge me. I actually still believe in Santa. I have no idea how else my stocking gets filled every Christmas morning.

What is a Christmas tradition you hope to pass on someday?

Dan: I don’t really have any Christmas traditions from my family that I feel the need to pass on.

The Christmas tradition that is important to me is being with family.

I’m not really big on traditions in general, but I know Brita has many traditions, which I enjoy celebrating with her, and which we’ll probably pass on to our future children.

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Brita: SO MANY TRADITIONS! And this will be Dan’s first Christmas really getting to discover some of them, since it will be his first Christmas in Greenwood. My family traditions are actually all for Christmas Eve and not Christmas Day, probably because Christmas Day is often coordinated with extended family.

  • We eat appetizers at home as we get ready for church. It’s the one time of year when we eat the really unhealthy fatty little sausages in a sweet sauce! Usually we have a hot dip too, like crab dip or artichoke dip.
  • We all go to church for the Christmas Eve candlelight service.
  • After church, Mom would make us a late dinner, which Jeremy and I will probably do this year. We always have Parmesan chicken, fancy rolls, and a beet-carrot puree. Christmas Eve dinner was probably the first time my parents let me drink wine! Not much, just half a wine glass with dinner.
  • After dinner, Daddy sometimes builds a fire, and we all gather in the family room for presents. We open all family gifts.

Do you open presents on Christmas morning or a different time?

Dan: I open Christmas presents with family whenever that may be when we can get together. Frequently that has been on Christmas Eve because my brother and my sister-in-law usually have Christmas with my sister-in-law’s extended family on Christmas Day.

Brita: Our family tradition is to open presents on Christmas Eve. Now it depends on when Dan and I celebrate Christmas. Santa always brings presents for Christmas morning, though!

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What is your favorite Christmas song? Movie?

Dan: Favorite Christmas movie is probably Elf. It’s very entertaining, and I love comedy. But Scrooged is a close second because I love Bill Murray.

I like all Christmas songs. I don’t think I have a particular favorite. If forced to choose, I guess I would say “Jingle Bells.” I do wish there was more of a variety in Christmas music.

Brita: I love Ami Grant’s “Breath of Heaven.” But anytime four women sing “O Holy Night” in perfect harmony is also pretty spectacular. Favorite Christmas movie would probably be The Santa Clause because I never grew up.

I love how our nerdy engagement photos turned out!

Blogger Men Tell All

Did you accomplish your goal for 2015?

Dan: I don’t recall setting specific goals for 2015. But at the end of 2014, I was looking for a new job, and Kinder Morgan was my first choice. It took awhile for them to get back to me, but I ended up getting a job with Kinder Morgan, and I really like it!

Brita: I think my only overreaching goal this year was to get healthy. My Crohn’s is better. My sleep habits are better. I’ve cut way back on caffeine, on sugar, and on soda. I might not be totally healthy, but I am healthier!

What is your favorite holiday tradition?

See above.

What did you gift your blogger for the holidays?

Dan: That is confidential information that cannot be revealed until after Christmas. It’s so confidential, I won’t even put it in a personal email.

Brita: Dan is not a blogger, so this question doesn’t apply to me…

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What is your favorite holiday movie?

Dan: I love Trading Places, whichย is more of a New Year’s movie.

Brita: I love Miracle on 34th Street, which is both a Thanksgiving and a Christmas movie.


 

It’s been challenging this month for me to write, even for me to get out of bed in the morning. I definitely planned to write more this week, and last week, neither of which happened. So I’m also using this post for Kiki’s The Circle, with the prompt of Christmas Tours & Traditions.

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Tell me about your Christmas traditions! If you’re in a relationship, how do you and your SO blend family traditions? Share all of your holiday thoughts in the comments below!

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Comments

  1. jessica lynn says

    December 18, 2015 at 8:12 am

    Wait….this is a link-up and they have questions every month? I have to look into this! I loved the one post I did last month (two months ago?) where I asked my husband questions, and I wanted to keep it up!

    Our husband’s are twins. He didn’t have any traditions growing up either, but my family had boatloads!

    • Brita Long says

      December 20, 2015 at 12:03 pm

      YES! You should totally join in. The Guys Behind the Blog is every month. It was this past week. Blogger Men Tell All is quarterly. It won’t be up until after Christmas, so it’s not too late to join that one. I just combine the questions for one post each quarter.

      Haha, I really do think our husbands would get along swimmingly.

  2. Charlene Maugeri says

    December 18, 2015 at 11:44 am

    I didn’t really have traditions growing up but my husband had tons. It was really funny our first year of marriage when he would say things like “Wait, we have to eat corned beef sandwiches on Christmas Eve! What are you thinking?” And I would say, “What? Where did that come from?” That’s probably not the best example but it was almost like he couldn’t believe that people outside his family didn’t do the things that they did every year. lol

    • Brita Long says

      December 20, 2015 at 12:06 pm

      Corned beef sandwiches on Christmas Eve? Okay, that’s a weird tradition. ๐Ÿ˜›

      It is funny how people don’t always realize their traditions are just family traditions. The best example is my best friend and her older sister. One year, when my best friend was about 8 or 9, she asked her mom on July 5th if she could have leftover cake for breakfast. Her mom really wanted to use up all the leftover 4th of July goodies, so she said yes. My best friend was surprised, so her mom quickly explained that it was a “5th of July” tradition, having cake for breakfast.

      My best friend and her older sister were both in high school by the time they realized that no one else celebrated this tradition.

      But now it’s still a tradition in their family! I celebrated the 4th with them many years ago, and brunch with cake was so much fun the next day. ๐Ÿ˜€

  3. eeli says

    December 19, 2015 at 2:38 am

    OH,GOOD BLOG.

  4. Lux @ About Life and Love says

    December 20, 2015 at 9:20 pm

    I see a lot of Christmas traditions, some are really unique and fun.
    Happy Christmas!

    • Brita Long says

      December 22, 2015 at 3:41 pm

      Merry Christmas to you too!

  5. Kiki says

    December 21, 2015 at 12:51 am

    A lit fire and opening presents with family? That sounds like so much fun and so cozy, too. ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Brita Long says

      December 22, 2015 at 3:43 pm

      Except this December is so warm, we’ll probably skip the fire. ๐Ÿ˜‰ But I’m still looking forward to our present exchange! For the last several years, since my husband and my SIL joined in the holiday celebrations, we’ve done a Secret Santa. This will be the first time we’ve actually been together to exchange our Secret Santa gifts since 2012!

  6. Julie Hood says

    December 22, 2015 at 7:11 am

    you two are so cute! i love that he wants santa to bring him his tools & car parts…was that like, “i want tools for christmas” or “i want him to bring me stuff while i work on things”? haha. i bought my husband some tool (i call everything a drill but i know that’s not it…) and i have a feeling he would want santa to bring him his tools while he works, too. haha. glad you posted this on the circle linkup! ๐Ÿ™‚

    • Brita Long says

      December 22, 2015 at 3:44 pm

      Aw, thanks! I think he just wants tools and car parts for Christmas… Except that clearly no one except for him will know what to buy. Usually I just let him buy new tools and car parts for his birthday. ๐Ÿ˜‰

  7. Regine says

    December 30, 2015 at 2:05 pm

    Love this!
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  8. Becca Dorr says

    December 31, 2015 at 12:15 pm

    Going to the Christmas Eve candlelight service is one of my favorite traditions too. ๐Ÿ™‚

  9. heatherbquinn says

    December 31, 2015 at 7:26 pm

    “Breath of Heaven” is such an amazing song – I first heard it sung by one of my students in a school choir concert and hearing the song sung by a teenage girl – the reminder that Mary was a teenage girl – was really meaningful.

    I also love your Harry Potter Christmas mug!

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