How did I do on my November goals? Well… not so hot.
November Recap
For my blog:
- While I did increase my page views from October to November, it wasn’t anywhere near by 15%. I was on track to increase my total page views by at least 10% until I got sick. Not having my scheduled blog posts last Friday and Saturday, and missing out on my usual daily blog promotion for the last four days in November, greatly negatively impacted my traffic those days.
- I definitely didn’t have time to redo my blog categories.
- Or put together my permanent page of blog link-ups.
For my health:
- My sleep habits are vastly improved!!!! Even with all the stress of my life last month, I got a decent amount of sleep most nights.
- But daily fruit and veggie servings did not happen. Oops.
For my marriage:
- I was so patient! Dan and I have really figured out this whole balance with both of us home during the day.
For our household:
- I stayed reasonably caught up with the laundry. I certainly washed enough clothes last month!
- Dan helped me with this, but I’ve kept the space in front of my dresser free! It still has a few things from our trip home to South Carolina, but we just got back yesterday, and we’re off to Pittsburgh tomorrow. Plus it’s December now, not November anymore.
For the Winter 2014 Book Challenge:
You also might remember my decision to join the Winter 2014 Book Challenge. Well, as stressful as November has been, I only read ONE book for the challenge, and that was a freebie. On the bright side, I did read books for my fairy tale book review column. Oh, hey, it turns out one of the fairy tale books I read can count for the challenge. Sweet.
5 points: Freebie! Read any book that fits the general rules. The Mound, Brendan P. Meyers, (288 pages, 4 stars) Note: I received a free Kindle copy in exchange for my review, which will be published on Enchanted Conversation.
10 points: Read a book written by an author who has published at least 10 books. Curse of the Thirteenth Fey: The True Tale of Sleeping Beauty, Jane Yolen, (256 pages, 3 stars)
PREVIOUS POINTS: 0
TOTAL POINTS: 15
December Goals
For my blog:
- Put my growth strategy on hold. Be content with a comparable number of daily or monthly page views in December as I had in October and November.
- Plan only 2-3 posts a week on my editorial calendar, with the flexibility to add 1-2 spontaneous posts each week if desired.
- Reorganize my blog categories.
- Add a permanent page that lists all of the blog link-ups I join.
For my health:
- Gain weight. To do that, I will:
- Minimize stress, no matter what.
- If I decide to turn down every social invitation or family gathering to prioritize my well-being, then so be it.
- Prioritize my health over my blog.
- Enrich my diet with meat, cheese, olives, avocados, and other fatty, natural foods.
- Take all of my prescriptions every single day.
- Minimize stress, no matter what.
For my marriage:
- Continue to support Dan in his job hunt.
- Find little ways to love him and appreciate him every day since I have to prioritize myself for my own health this month.
For our household:
- Finish our ornament wreath.
- Keep up with the laundry.
- Learn easy, calorie-rich recipes for the Crock-Pot.
For the Winter 2014 Book Challenge:
- Read the first three books in the Lunar Chronicles.
I thought my November goals were manageable, but apparently not. I’ve made my December goals easy to tackle! Here’s to a month of health, self-care, food, and relaxation!
What are your holiday goals? If you blog, do you take some time off during December? Leave a comment!



I have to say, increasing pageviews has been pretty hard for me. My monthly average has stayed roughly the same for like six months, with some highs and lows mostly depending on how much I feel like using Twitter or writing about more “searchable” stuff. But the highs aren’t consistent enough to make me feel like I’m not kind of lying if I increase my stats on my Advertise page. Oddly, though, my engagement has changed a LOT over that same period, so I’m satisfied with that.
Haha, nice work on being patient! That one made me laugh, because when my boyfriend goes to work a little later or comes home early, it totally throws me off my game. I’ve gotten used to being alone all day and having my “me” time, so I get so irritable! He’s way more patient and flexible than me.
I have a pretty decent strategy of increasing page views. The problem is having the time to implement it well. I analyze my most popular posts of the last 30 days and of all time fairly regularly to see what topics continue to do well (marriage, feminism, and fashion, FYI), and I try to get in at least a few of those each month. But I still like to write posts on topics that I KNOW don’t do well (books and travel, apparently), even when they take time and won’t get me many page views. So the writing is a balance between ALL the topics I like, even if some aren’t popular.
Plus I analyze my referral traffic and search traffic fairly often, so I know where to spend time promoting my blog, and what’s really a waste of my time. Again, this goes back to having the time, though. I know what works–I just need time to do it all!
Finally, I’ve spaced out sponsorships and guest posts and things like that, but my first time with each new blog is really just a guess on how successful it will be.
That was a really long response… And I’m not done…
It’s definitely been an adjustment with him home, but we have finally worked it out. It was just hard to change after me working from home ALONE for so long, and then suddenly he’s hanging around the house. Dan is also a lot more patient with me than I am with him, but I think I’ve improved!
Hi Brita!
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MERCI BEAUCOUP! You are amazing. 🙂
These are awesome lists for strategies. I’ve been thinking of doing something similar at some point. Maybe this is the month to start it.
I feel like really specific, mini-goals help me actually get stuff done. Maybe doing that could be your New Year’s Resolution! I know a blogger who has done monthly resolutions for years, instead of just a big one for the whole year. It’s more manageable IMHO.
This post really got me thinking about writing down my own goals! A great idea!